When people dislike us; it is usually some of that awful behaviour that we have or sometimes we have this feeling that we just don’t like each other for some reason even if you did not do anything terrible. And yes, we might ask some questions why that is so? Obviously, we all have different personality and perception in life and we see things in different angles, hence, comes the disagreement and conflict, therefore, we have this feeling we don’t like each other.
However, I came with these ideas that it is not all about the appalling character that people dislike people (and I am pretty sure you are a good person) but above all; you have so many good things that make some people despise you as if there’s nothing else you do are right and good but seems like everything you do and say in a positive way, the other person would say otherwise. Is that sound familiar to you? It’s annoying, isn’t it?
Without further ado, let me give you the reasons why people dislike you:
1. You are a likeable person. It is natural of you. You can resonate to people straight away even to strangers. People feel good being with you. You can create good connection right away. Those who don’t like you would wonder how did you do that and deep inside wishing they have that quality.
2. You are very resourceful. You always have option even in the midst of uncertainty. You find ways to fix things and discover new things.
3. You are calm and highly intuitive. Despite everything you hear from other people who do not like you; you remain calm and you use your intuition to ignore those things because you know yourself better than them. You remain silent instead of arguing because you knew it is a waste of time and for that reason that makes them dislike you.
4. You have great potential. If you notice those who do not like you; they keep comparing themselves to you. How pathetic is that? You know because of all the things they have; they see something in you that they do not have and you have huge potentials that you can do better than them.
5. You have a vision. You can see many good things in every situation. You see loads of opportunity whilst those who do not like you only see problems and even discouraging you. You see hope in the present and even in the future.
6. You are confident in such a way that you are not boastful. Even those who do not like you, still you are confident to carry on with yourself.
7. You live life effortlessly. This is nothing to do with all the money you have but even if you don’t own anything, you live life with ease and in harmony because you know what you want and what works for you and what makes you happy. People who do not like you would not understand how you just live life naturally and it pisses them off by telling you what you don’t have as a matter of fact, how they wish to live it that way.
8. You are naturally a good person. You do the right thing. You are doing great in your life. I do not mean perfection. You do have some fair share of shortcoming but still you learn from those and you keep going to this wonderful ride of life. People who do not like you tend to bring up your past to paint you as a bad person but to be honest, they are the bad ones who can’t move on and can’t stand with your goodness.
9. You are a mature person. Of all your experiences in life whether good or bad; you took them as lessons in life. You are getting smarter and wiser. You are open-minded. You see beauty in imperfection. But people who do not like you are the opposite and you can smell them straight away.
10. You are in nature beautiful. With all those qualities above that makes you more beautiful inside and out. You are good in personal transformation and as a result, your personality develops in such a way that you are indeed an example why people dislike you. How cool is that?
Therefore, do not make a big fuss of yourself if a person does not like you. They are just angry because the truth you speak with your good character contradicts the lie they live. Keep up the good work. Keep evolving. Do not be discouraged of everything you hear from other people as long as you are doing well. You do not live life for other people but you live for yourself. You are only obligated by yourself alone. They are just jealous of you for some reason that they are bothered of your presence and your excellent transformation. They dislike you because of that but deep down they wish they had the courage to be like you. I always believe that there is goodness on each every one of us. Do not let your dark sides manifest of who you don’t want to be. As cliche as it sounds, life is short not to live life to the fullest and in your own terms.